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10 Things Millionaires Know About Money & Success That You Don’t

Is that elusive goal of “millionaire” status still seemingly out of reach to you? For years I thought that attaining millionaire status was just “luck of the draw”. Some people were “meant” to be rich, and others were “meant” to be poor. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t seem to change my dire financial situation, so I figured that was a sign that I wasn’t destined to be rich – or even financially stable.

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Even though I felt like financial stability was out of my reach, for some reason I kept trying to find it. I was so sick and tired of struggling for money, and I knew I must be missing something. Eventually I stumbled onto personal finance blogs and books. It’s been a long, tough road of ups and downs, but we are finally winning with money.

I’ve had to read and re-read many books and blog articles in order to get the truth about wealth through my thick head. I’ve had to search deep inside myself and find out the real reason behind my and my husband’s money struggles. And guess what I found out?

I learned that there are reasons why people remain poor despite their efforts, and reasons why people get rich despite starting out with dire, dire circumstances. The reasons, honestly, are endless. But here are ten of the most prominent lessons I had to learn about why some people get rich and why so many others stay poor. Do any of them apply to you?

1. There’s No Shortage of Money

For years I thought that there was a finite amount of money and it was divided up between the haves and the have nots in whatever proportion it was. It wasn’t until I read the Grant Cardone quote “There’s no shortage of money, only a shortage of people thinking big enough.” I read this quote in another book, but it turns out that Grant, a highly successful business mogul, has his own book on the subject, and it gets rave reviews on Amazon.

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Ironically, I learned about Grant’s massive action theory through a podcast episode I listened to, and it’s already doing BIG things for us in our financial life. More on that later. The point is that in order to really increase your wealth, you can’t succumb to the belief that money is in shortage in the world. It’s just a matter of learning how to get it and learning how to manage it.

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2. Education is Vital

Which leads me to the next thing millionaires know about gaining wealth: they know that education is vital. Tom Corley, in his book Rich Habits – The Daily Success Habits of Wealthy Individuals, shares that 88% of the wealthy read non-fiction articles or books for 30 minutes or more every single day.

Why? Because they understand that education is vital to their success. It’s for that reason that I never stop reading books and blogs on money and success, and for that reason that I continually share powerful articles and books on this blog as well. Education is what has gotten us out of roadblocks and barriers to financial freedom.

Despite what you might think or feel, you’ll never know it all, and neither will I. Make education on the subjects that are most important to you a top priority, and you’ll soon learn enough to achieve what you want to achieve.

3. It’s Not About Destiny; it’s About Choices

I know I may get some flack on this one, but after living nearly 50 years on this earth, I firmly believe it’s true. I was talking to someone not long ago who is struggling with money. Their job is a job that many would consider unworthy, but they definitely make above the poverty scale wage – in fact they make well over $20 an hour.

As we discussed their money situation, this person said to me “I guess it’s just the hand I was dealt.”

Truth: No one makes you work at the job you work it, and no one makes you manage your money the way you manage it.

I know that’s a tough truth to face, and it’s one Rick and I have had to face multiple times in our journey to get out of debt. I’m not saying this to hurt you. Instead, I want to you be encouraged in knowing that you do have options. You can get a better – or different – job. You can change your spending habits.

When we hit our second tough financial stretch this year – just this month – I was frustrated. Sick of the one step forward two steps back dance.

Just for accountability reasons, I went back and looked at our expenditures (yes, I track ALL of my spending) for the last six months. Although many of the expenses were justifiable, I did find $2500 that we could have not spent. $650 of that was for a dermatologist appointment that I could’ve spent closer to $200 at. There were a couple of spots on my face I was concerned about.

The dermatologist said they weren’t anything to worry about, but I made him remove them anyway and send them in for testing. Turns out the dermatologist did know what he was talking about and I wasted $450. I’m not regretting that I went to the appointment, but I am regretting that I didn’t trust his expertise and made him remove the spots.

The rest of the stuff was mostly little expenditures here and there. Months where we could’ve cut the grocery and the gasoline bill a bit more. Some small restaurant expenditures.

I could justify these expenses all day long but the fact of the matter is that if I wouldn’t have spent this extra $2500, our major house and car repair bills wouldn’t have hurt quite as badly as they did.

Successful people know that their choices, however seemingly insignificant they are, make an impact on their future.

4. What You Believe Makes a Difference

Somebody else who is struggling with money said to me the other day “I just can’t see us being able to afford (that) anytime soon.

Guess what: If you can’t “see” it, it’s not going to happen. Where money is concerned, I call this Beating the Broke Mindset. As long as you believe you’ll always struggle for money, you will. Once you start believing you have the power to make changes, you will.

If you want the kind of success that ensures you’ll achieve your goals, you need to start believing that you can do it. You need to start seeing yourself as successful. As you do, you’ll retrain your mind to make choices that line up with how you see yourself.

5. There are Many Roads to Wealth

Wealth doesn’t just have to come via inheritance. Or a high paying job. The key to wealth is to create one or more streams of income and learn to manage that income well.

I would also add that while you can get wealthy on just one income, don’t limit yourself to just one income. Start exploring your dreams. What do you like to do? What are you good at? And how can you take those things and make an income or some side hustle money out of them?

Just because Warren Buffett got rich through investing doesn’t mean you have to. Just because Robert Kiyosaki got rich through real estate doesn’t mean you have to. Figure out what you’re good at and start educating yourself on how to make money at it. Then, learn how to manage that money in a way that promotes growth and not poverty.

6. Time is Valuable – Use Yours Wisely and Don’t Procrastinate

Two-thirds of wealthy people spend less than an hour a day watching TV or surfing the Internet – unless it’s job related.

In other words, they don’t waste time. Instead, they spend their time learning how to make more money and how to make the money they have work for them, so that they can spend more time doing the things they love, like being with family and friends.

Piddling away the average 5+ hours a day on screen time that does nothing to improve your quality of life is a choice we can all make – or we can choose instead to partake in activities that will improve our quality of life and the padding on our bank account.

It all depends on what your goals are.

7. Health is Valuable – Take Care of Yours

I struggled for years with emotional eating. Instead of eating to fuel my body, I ate to get a short-term high that would help me forget that my life wasn’t the way I wanted it to be. Other people do this all the time and it results in potentially deadly diseases such as Type 2 Diabetes and Heart Disease.

We can’t always control our health, but we can do everything in our power to give our bodies a fighting chance against disease. Or we can help them along the road to diminishing health by filling our days with processed foods and inactivity.

Money and Success are nothing without the good health to enjoy them. Take care of your body. You deserve it!

8. Wasting Money Diminishes Your Chances of Getting Wealthy

This may seem obvious, but I’m bringing it up because our own road to tens of thousands of dollars in consumer debt was paved largely with small, seemingly inconsequential purchases. Dinners out. Clearance clothes from Target. Cable TV subscriptions.

I hate to tell you this, but all of your “it’s just a little bit, it’s just $20, it’s just $50” purchases are hindering you from achieving the financial security you so desperately want. They did for us for years.

It was only when we started to track our spending and to stop making those little purchases in favor of building wealth that we started to see true change in our money situation.

And guess what: we are surviving not spending money on restaurants and trips to the water park or amusement park. In fact, we’re thriving because we’ve largely stopped spending money on those things. We’re “living like no one else lives now so that later we can live like no one else lives” only in a really AWESOME way where we can pay CASH for cars and vacations.

9. Goals and Wishes are Two Different Things

Have you ever found yourself saying “I wish I had more money”? I have. I “wished” it for nearly twenty years. It wasn’t until Rick and I sat down and made a doable plan for eliminating our debt and building our wealth reserves that those “wishes” started coming true.

Wishes will stay wishes forever until you set some goals and make a doable, step-by-step plan to achieve those goals.

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10. Who You Surround Yourself with Makes a Difference

This might be tough to hear, but if you continually have people with no dreams, goals or discipline as your inner circle of friends, you will likely continue to struggle financially and otherwise.

If you want more out of life but can’t or don’t want to change your inner circle of friends who might be encouraging you to stay with the status quo, at least develop online relationships with those who have like-minded goals.

We don’t have many IRL friends who have the same dreams of success and wealth that we do, but we have a solid group of online friends that inspire us every single day to keep on moving forward.

This group of friends, bloggers and podcasters help us to pick ourselves up when we fail, to learn new things that keep us moving forward, and to challenge ourselves to keep improving.

They help us to overcome obstacles like fear and a lack of knowledge. They encourage us when we’re feeling defeated. And because many of them have the same types of visions for their own success, they know what they’re talking about.

If you have big dreams and aspirations of becoming a millionaire or business success, start hanging around with people that have those same goals and dreams. Learn from them. Let them speak knowledge into your life. And encourage them in return.

Becoming a millionaire or reaching whatever other dreams you have is not impossible. It just takes a simple willingness to learn and to keep taking steps forward toward your goal every. single. day. You in?




  1. “No one makes you work at the job you work it, and no one makes you manage your money the way you manage it.” Word! I hear a lot of complaining but I see nothing to make the situation any better, including spending, what you can try and change at work, or at the very leas updating your resume and start making contacts. BE PROACTIVE! Overall a great article with great advice Laurie!

  2. I love #3: “It’s Not About Destiny; it’s About Choices.” SO true. Folks need to learn to take accountability for their lives, and begin making Choices that will move their lives in the direction they Choose to move it in. Strange how some folks just don’t seem to get that. The next time you find yourself blaming someone for a situation you’re in, stop. Look in the mirror. And re-read this post.

    Excellent points, well presented.

    • Laurie says:

      “Folks need to learn to take accountability for their lives, and begin making Choices that will move their lives in the direction they Choose to move it in.” This is one of the hardest, but most valuable – lessons I have learned to date. Great comment, Fritz!

    • Calvin says:

      Excellent points! I was talking with a few friends recently and we were lamenting some of their choices in our youth. I remember one of them saying that we are nothing more than a collection of our choices. How true.

  3. I’ve really come to see the power of choices as I’ve grown up. The issue is that yes, a lot of us have to deal with the hand we were dealt in life. It’s about making choices to deal with what you have and continuing to make positive choices.

  4. Great advice! Our mentality shifted when we actually made a plan to achieve our dreams. We’ve kicked out that “we could never afford that” mindset and set short term, intermediate, and long term goals to eventually get there.

  5. I love the entire list! But two of my favorites are #6 and #7 – Time and Health are so valuable! But I think they are two of the things we tend to take for granted the most – that is, until they’re gone. We need to prioritize both to be successful in life.

  6. Awesome list! #3 and #7 are my favorites. It is amazing how much can happen when you set your mind to a task or goal, big or small. And health is so incredibly vital. It isn’t always in your hands completely, but there is always something you can do to better your health and wellness!

  7. Mrs. Groovy says:

    All great advice, Laurie!

    Please don’t be upset with yourself over the dermatology testing. Sometimes the doctors can tell by looking and sometimes they can’t. Perhaps you were following a hunch, and luckily for you, you were wrong. In this case I believe “it’s only money” applies. If I were you and was able to get a do-over, I don’t know that I’d do it differently.

    We heard Grant Cardone the other day with Lewis Howes on the School of Greatness. He’s super motivating (I got a little exhausted listening, LOL.)

    • Laurie says:

      Thanks, Mrs. G. 🙂 I’m letting it go, but I still wish I would have listened to the doc. 🙂 I’ll have to look up that Grant Cardone podcast. I haven’t heard it yet!

  8. Kristi says:

    Excellent post, absolutely excellent! Would you please direct me to Grants podcast that is making such a difference for you guys? Many, many thanks!

  9. Number 3 and 4 are downright powerful.

    I don’t know if I’ll ever become a millionaire, but I do believe it’s a possibility! And the choices we make that affect our finances will or will not help us get there.

    I’ve met so many people struggling with money troubles, yet they don’t seem to think they can actually do something about it. Preferring to keep a low paying job while complaining is a choice, but many don’t understand that.

  10. It really does come down to just a few powerful principles consistently applied.

    Unfortunately, good intentions aren’t enough to become wealthy (or to do anything!) – it takes a change in the choices we make. I think there are very few people in the world who don’t want to be wealthy. But it’s not enough to want – it takes changing what we do on a day to day basis.

  11. Awesome post!!! I feel like millionaires try to control their future while those that think life happens to them often look to blame others for the situation that they are in. I think if more people practiced delayed gratification that they would be much happier since most things don’t make them happy over the long term 🙂

    • Laurie says:

      Yes!!! We have SO found that to be true. We used to think that if we had all of the “stuff” we wanted that life would be great. Now we know that the opposite is true!

  12. Lizzy says:

    Great post. I liked #8 regarding how the little $5, $10 dollar expenditures add up to tens of thousands in debt. I think the reverse is true too. For example, if one shopped carefully and saved $10, immediately send that extra ten dollars to your smallest debt balance or to a savings account. These little bits of money can really help one get out of debt or build savings more quickly.

    • Anthony says:

      I want just wanted to chime in to say that those little expenditures add up quickly and majorly over time and it not only affects those who use credit cards to make purchases. It affects people who use cash/debit cards just as badly. By not having taken good control over our own spending habits has caused us to overspend our budget $60,000 throughout our 5 years of marriage. If we never overspent a single penny we’d be debt free with a fully (perhaps overly) funded 6 month emergency fund with money left over for a newer car or a nice vacation.

      Getting control of your own habits and choices sets you up for freedom much sooner with the added benefit of getting to enjoy said freedom for far longer.

      • Laurie says:

        Anthony, we got into the same amount of consumer debt the same way!! You are so right – it can happen so quickly. The good thing is that you realize the mistake and are working to never let it happen again. You got this!

  13. Wasting money is a big one. It’s so easy to nickle and dime yourself into poverty. Those small things add up very quickly and when its funded by consumer debt the problem gets even worse.

    I use a bit of self induced scarcity to keep myself on track. I only get a certain amount to spend on personal stuff each pay period. It sounds harsh but I find its the best way to make spending decisions. There’s always an inner monologue “if I buy this today I cant buy that tomorrow”.

    • Laurie says:

      That’s a great idea, Owen. I love that you’re always thinking long-term when it comes to spending decisions. Great tip!

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