Category: Frugal Finance Management

A custom debt-reduction budget that fits your own family’s size, needs, etc., is crucial to debt reduction success.

What School Won’t Teach Your Kids About Finances

There’s a reason there are so many financial bloggers on the internet. It’s because so many young people have trouble with finances.

Obviously this wouldn’t be the case if they had been taught to do these things from a young age. But whose responsibility is it? Does it belong with schools or parents?

I think the answer is that both should share that responsibility. However, since most schools won’t teach your kids about finances here are some things they should know.

How to Open a Checking Account

Help your child open their first checking account when they become responsible enough. Let them earn money and deposit it into the account as well as make withdrawals occasionally.

Balancing their statements each month is important so teach them this skill as well. These are things they will not automatically know and school won’t teach them.

Learn to Budget

You can’t rely on the school system because they may not teach your kids about finances. If you want your child to have bright future financially, you need to teach them how to create a budget.

As you teach them to budget you might consider using a budgeting app. This may help you keep their interest and show them how easy budgeting is. It also allows them to budget from their cell phone, if they have one.

Teach your children how to adjust their budget as their income or needs change. This is crucial to their future financial success.

Your children need to learn to set goals and priorities for their spending. Allow them to save money toward a larger future purchase so they learn these lessons.

They also need to work for at least part of their money. Giving them everything doesn’t teach them the true value of money.

Avoid Debt

School won’t teach your kids about finances so help them learn how to avoid debt. For example, teach them not to use credit cards unless it is an emergency.

Remind them that if they do use a credit card, they should pay it off as soon as possible to avoid high interest charges. If they need to get a loan for college, teach them to how to pay off student loans as fast as they can.

Help your children understand that another way to avoid debt is to not try to outdo or compete with their friends. That type of spending will get them into debt and won’t impress real friends anyway.

Show them that if they get off track with budgeting to examine why so they can correct the behavior and stop it from happening again. Let them know they should not stop budgeting just because of a setback.

Open a High Interest Savings Account

When the school won’t teach your kids about finances, show them how to open a high interest savings account for emergencies. If they start an emergency fund when they are young they will be more likely to continue the practice of saving in the future.

Invest for the Future

Another thing school won’t teach your kids about finances is how to invest for the future. That means it is up to you to instruct them.

Let them know about 401K plans they could sign up for once they get a job that offers them. Help your child to understand that employers contribute some of the money toward these plans. Make sure they know that they should take advantage of this opportunity to invest for their future starting when they are young.

Explain how compound interest works. Show them other investing options too. When they have a greater understanding of how investing is done they will be more likely to start doing it early on.

Watch Out for Scammers

It’s a sad thing that we must teach our kids to watch out for other people that could try to scam them. However, to keep them safe it should be done.

Instruct your children on the best ways to keep their information safe from those who would steal it or their money. You should also make sure they know that not all offers of free merchandise are legitimate. Some are a means for criminals to gain their information or steal their money.

Jeanne is a married mother of 2 children who works as a full-time freelancer and also helps out occasionally on the farm she and her husband own together. Her background is mostly finance and medical office management.  She’s currently working to improve her financial well-being and hopes to help others improve theirs as well.

There are many kids who grow up without the knowledge to handle their finances with skill. Parents assume schools teach it and schools assume parents teach it.

Don’t make that mistake. Share what school won’t teach your kids about finances so yours are prepared to care for themselves once they are on their own.

Are there other financial related things you should be teaching your kids?

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Overcoming Poverty After Divorce

Today we have a guest post for you. This is the story of how Lila Donovan’s mother overcame poverty after divorce and the lessons she taught Lila along the way.

Many people hate making budgets and paying off debt because they start thinking about all the things they can’t do. Growing up my mom taught me that budgets and being debt-free actually frees you.

When my first step-dad and my mom couldn’t work on their marriage anymore, they decided to get divorced. Mom was a former teacher who had quit her job to stay at home but my step-dad proved to be emotionally abusive towards mom and me.

Although mom hadn’t intended on becoming a single mom (again), she eventually became one. After my mom filed divorce from my step-dad, we moved out to an apartment in a less than stellar neighborhood.

Education is Key

A friend of my mom’s that was a hairstylist advised her to go to cosmetology school because training was quick and it was affordable. When we were moving into the new apartment  my step-dad had told both of us that we’d never live in a nice home again.

He also told my mom she would fail. My mom didn’t have much in savings from her former teaching years but with the little she did have, she decided to enroll in cosmetology school.

When she wasn’t at cosmetology school, my mom decided to take on a low-wage job and started side hustling. Her side hustles included selling home baked cakes & she made stuffed animals which she sold at an independent toy store.

Separate Your Finances

Around this time my mom was still using the joint bank account she had shared with my step-dad. Originally my step-dad had told my mom she could have the money on this bank account which was roughly $10,000.

He went back on his word and transferred the entire amount out of it. She never thought he’d ever do anything this degrading. He basically cleaned it all out so my mom didn’t have any money to her name. He was still listed as the co-owner of the bank account which is how he was able to do that.

When she called the bank they treated it as a case of he said, she said. There was nothing they could do. Eventually my mom decided to get her own bank account at another bank and told the bank to remove her from the joint account. She doubled down on her side hustles and took extra hours at her minimum wage job.

Hard Work

After she graduated from cosmetology school, she landed a job at a barber shop, and started to work crazy hours. She was working at least 60-70 hours each week.

With the money from her day job and the side hustle money she started racking up her emergency savings pretty quickly. Mom had always derided debt as evil and as a result she never took on any debt. After the divorce was finalized, mom didn’t get any alimony or financial help from my step-dad except for their used car he had bought during their marriage.

There wasn’t any child support either. A few months after the divorce was finalized he actually came to our apartment and wanted to talk to my mom. He wanted to get back together with her and have us be a family again! She told him to go away or she’d call the police. We never saw him again afterwards.

Living Frugally

During this time we couldn’t afford the type of vacations a two-income household often takes. My mom found a solution by putting me in the local Boys & Girls club during the summers.

After a couple of years mom was able to move us out of the lower-income apartment complex and we moved into a middle-class apartment complex. She also bought a new Honda with cash.

After five years of working for the barber shop she decided to squirrel away money to open up her own barber shop. I asked her once why she didn’t want to open a hairstyling salon for women. Mom explained that cutting men’s hair was quick and she got fast enough where she cut it quickly with quality.

She told her current customers she was opening her own shop and many of them followed her. In addition she decided to promote the new shop by passing out flyers in person and she put them on car windshields as well.

Building a Business and Buying a Home

Her own shop got going pretty quickly and quit her side hustles as the business reached a point where it was out earning her side hustle money.  One day she was talking to a male barber who encouraged her to buy her own home. Mom wanted her own home but wasn’t sure she could afford one. After running the numbers she decided she could actually afford it and got a realtor to help her find a home.

She eventually found a detached home for roughly $120,000, a 3-bedroom and 2-bathroom home. There was actually a bidding war when she and her realtor went to make an offer, and interestingly enough mom won the home. Eventually she bought the home for $150,000. It was a nice home in a middle-class neighborhood.

Within roughly five years of her divorced my mom had managed to: get trained for a new job in a new field, bought a car with cash, opened her own barber shop, and bought her own home. We eventually were able to take nice vacations to Disneyland (several times), Kauai, the Grand Canyon, NYC, etc.

Being Self-Reliant

My mom knew that there wouldn’t be anyone to rescue us. There was only her. You hear it all the time how single moms and their children are statistics, my mom refused to give in and I did too. I focused on school, got great grades, and avoided in getting into trouble.

I graduated high school without ever becoming a statistic. Mom focused on providing a living and getting out of poverty. In my mom’s eyes there were no excuses and no time for pity parties. It wasn’t a picnic at all, she had many hard and lonely days. She often likes to say that pity parties don’t pay your bills.

When I graduated from high school my mom said, “Always be independent even if you marry Mr. Wonderful.” As for my mom she eventually found a nice guy who cared for both of us and they got married. He became my second step-dad.

She found her own happy ending eventually, but he didn’t rescue her. Mom rescued herself.  My second step-dad had his own home and they decided to sell both of their homes (after I moved away to college) and bought a new home of their own.

If we just get out of our own way we can achieve more than we can imagine. Financial freedom doesn’t have to remain a fantasy. Too often people get depressed and think about all the money and opportunities they don’t have. It’s not about all the things you can’t do, it’s about all the things you can do.

Lila’s a writer who wants to inspire and empower people through the written word. Her home right now is Nebraska where she’s enjoying the heartland. You can find out more about Lila on her website.

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How to Handle Multiple Debt Balances at Once

Today we have some advice about how to handle debt for our UK readers. Enjoy!

Managing your money isn’t an easy task. Every month you need to ensure that the money you have coming in can cover all of the essential outgoings in your household, paying for everything from bills to the grocery shopping.

For many people credit cards, loans and store cards add to the monthly mix of payments we need to make. Each of these can, of course, be a sensible way of paying off a big ticket purchase such as a car or home improvement, but things can start to get tricky when you’ve got several debt payments to juggle at once. One in four families owes money on a personal loan, while there are about 60 million credit cards in use across the UK. A lot of people, therefore, are likely to have both of these forms of borrowing to pay back.

So, what do you do when you have multiple debts to handle? Here are some top tips to help you to stay on control.

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